Tuesday, December 29, 2009
The Mistletoe Hunt
We went back to Bumpa's and starting putting ribbons on the mistletoe, and then we took it home for the sale. We set up our booth out front and went door to door.
When we took our money to Wescom to cash in (money Luke had saved over time, earned by the sale, and taken from his Bumpa's coin jar), Luke had over 70 dollars!!!
The plan was Luke would donate a portion, use a portion to buy Christmas gifts for our family, and then use the remainder to get himself a toy. The plan worked out perfectly!!
Nana took Luke shopping at the 99 Cent store, and he managed to buy something for the ENTIRE family, including his cousins, his aunts, etc. Luke and Nana came back and wrapped all the presents together, starting what I hope will be a new tradition. Luke also bought a stuffed animal for Toys for Tots, and later went to Target with me to pick himself out some Star Wars legos.
You cannot begin to imagine the look of pride on Luke's face when the family opened his gifts. It was obvious to all of us that he had learned about the joy of giving.
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
State Champs
We were thrilled to see Daddy's team pack the stands at the Home Depot Center in Carson as they faced Marin Catholic for the State title. We enjoyed watching the game with all our family and friends, and Luke was excited later to himself and his Dad on TV. Best of all, Daddy won, becoming the first team in the South Bay history to win a state title. We could not be prouder!Thursday, December 10, 2009
Tree Decorating

Last night we decorated our tree and it was a blast. Nate only broke one ornament; I'm sorry to say it was a cherished New Years 2000 ornament, but at least there were not more casualties. Yesterday, as Luke spent the afternoon looking at the ornaments and playing with them , asking questions about where certain ones came from and which ones were his, my own childhood memories came rushing back. As a grown up you forget that something as simple as your family's ornament collection is so magical for kids!
So far today, most of the ornaments have managed to stay on the tree. And the tree is still standing upright and has not been bowled over... I think this is a good omen for the season!
A Visit to Santa
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Moms Club Christmas

Sunday, December 6, 2009
Metro Santa Train
Tonight we met Gramma Laurie, Grandpa Burt, Jenny and Shyla for dinner at Stuft pizza (the pizza crust here is HFI safe- and so delicious, too!) and then headed down to the San Clemente Metro station to check out the Holiday Train. The train is decorated in thousands of lights, and there is a stage show with all the major Christmas Characters.Saturday, December 5, 2009
Imagination Movers
The Movers are possibly the most likable people ever born. The concert was high energy and great fun- with little funny asides and jokes (think Van Halen's Panama, Eminem's Slim Shady) meant for the adults. Three of the four lost their homes in hurricane Katrina, and they have 11 kids between them. They all had noble professions before their foray into kid's music: teacher, architect, firefighter... but what was most special was watching their power to move kids ages 3-7 for well over an hour. Scott and I were awestruck watching these kids act like mini adults at a rock concert. Mouths agape, the kids swayed, danced, followed along to choreographed moves, and sang their hearts out. The Movers often came down into the crowd, serenading and offering a plethora of high fives. There was swag thrown from the stage and lots of opportunities for audience interaction. Luke walked away with a blow up basketball he caught during Smitty's "Playing Catch".
Can I be honest? It was one of my favorite concerts, ever. We all had a blast!
http://blog.scrooks.net/very-short-video-from-the-imagination-movers
Friday, December 4, 2009
The Latest Craze

Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Pretend City
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Gwampa How

Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Gobble Gobble
Monday, November 23, 2009
Daddy's Birthday

Friday, November 13, 2009
Nancy Balls

Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Five Great Things
1. Today Nate peed on the potty and laughed the whole time; he was so excited (and so am I)!
2. Luke and I worked tirelessly on his first novel, called "Monster Blood"- which is actually taken from a Goosebumps chapter book.
3. Nate was the "Ball Pit Bully" at Mommy and Me today, hogging the whole pit, jumping in with total surrender, and trying to swim amid the balls like a playful otter.
4. Nate said "Yukey!"... his new name for his "Bra Bra" Lukey!
5. We saw our Bumpa for lunch!
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Shorry
So, I picked Nate up to take him to time out in his crib. For months we have been doing this, more for Luke's benefit than for Nate's, since I thought Nate was too young to understand but Luke needed the demonstration in fairness.
I picked Nate up and told him he was going to time out for bonking his brother. Suddenly, from over my shoulder Nate shouts out, "Shorry! Shorry Bra Bra!" I couldn't help but grin at this apology as I placed him in his crib and walked away.
He sat in his crib crying for about two minutes, and when I went to get him, I told him he needed to apologize to his brother and give him a kiss. He waddled out of his room straight over to Luke, and without ado went in for the kiss, followed by a heartfelt, "Shorry, BraBra".
Why can't discipline always end in a smile?
Friday, November 6, 2009
Chuck E Cheese
Two days ago Luke mentioned Chuck E Cheese, and Nate lit up like a Christmas tree. We've been to Chuck E Cheese a few times in the last few months, when it's really hot, when it's really cold, and always at 2 pm on a weekday. Apparently, these visits have made quite the impression on Nate. Add to that his recent obsession with "gam-eeees" (games), and I knew Chuck E Cheese would be heavenly to Nate. We collectively decided that Friday after school we would make a special trip to Chuck E Cheese.Sunday, November 1, 2009
Trick Or Treat
Friday, October 30, 2009
Halloween Parade

Thursday, October 29, 2009
Halloween projects
We pride ourselves on being crafty, and this year we enjoyed several Halloween projects. We made a Haunted House out of an old box, some paper bags, and skeleton stickers given to us by Grandma Laurie. It was the hit of Luke's "share day" at school.Sunday, October 25, 2009
More Pumpkin Patch
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Tempers Flair
Me, "Say goodnight to Daddy."
"I want Daddy to put me to bed."
"Mama's gonna do it tonight. Goodnight Daddy."
"NO! I want Daddy to do it!!!"
Me, "Let's start our prayers. Dear Jesus...."
"NOO! Daddy! Daddy's gonna do it!"
"Hey. How would you feel if I said I didn't want to put you to bed, I only wanted to put Nate to bed?"
He thinks for a minute... "Really really bad."
"Well that's how it makes me feel when you say you want Daddy to do it."
Whine whine whine "Well... I just want him."
"Luke, it's time to go to bed. You can pray now and we can have a song, or you can keep whining, and I'll leave and you can go to bed by yourself."
"No! Just get Daddy!"
"I'm leaving now. Goodnight." And as I exit the room....
"HUH! I WON'T GO TO SLEEP! HUH! I'M NOT CLOSING MY EYES. HUH! I'M GETTING OUT OF MY BED! HUH!"
So, I take the bait and charge back in furious and shrieking, "STOP IT RIGHT NOW! YOU ARE ACTING HORRIBLE!!! I DON'T WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU AGAIN!!! GO TO SLEEP!!!!"
And I charge out to the kitchen, taking deep breaths and wondering why in the world I am so angry. Why?! WHY!?
So, I go back in, where he is quietly sobbing. Yes, I know. And I tell him I'm sorry I yelled and I give him a hug. I ask him how we could do it better next time, and he says, "I could not talk sassy at you and not do the whining and not kick my brother in the head." I tell him these are all good things and I ask him how I could do it better, and he says, "You could not scream at me." And so I made a promise to him to try much harder, which I fully intend to keep. And he promised me right back, which I know will take some work.
And I marvel at this little man, so like me. I am in awe at this responsibility, to teach him as many of my good parts as possible, and not allow the weaker parts of me to find a home in him.
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Pumpkin patch Time!!!
Luke, Grace and Jackson hanging out after our picnic...
In my humble opinion, the best Pumpkin Patch in Southern California is at the Irvine Park Railroad. This is our second year enjoying the festivities there, and it is definitely worth the drive. The Irvine Regional Park is so gorgeous, especially this time of year. The train and the pony rides are regular attractions, but the pumpkin patch boasts a haunted house that Luke and Nate explored over and over again, a hay ride, displays meant for sticking your face, a bouncer, and the biggest hit... tractor races! We went with our friends from Moms Club and finished with a delightful picnic :)
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Love You Forever

Thursday, October 8, 2009
A Great Age

How stinkin' cute is this kid?
When you have a child this age (20 months) it is very common for people to tell you how this age was their favorite age when rearing their own kids. And it's so easy to see why. Yesterday, Scott came home, and Nate, for the first time, ran to him and yelled, "Hi Daddy!" A few days ago we were driving in the car and from the back seat I hear, "Halloween tings!" as he spotted a house decorated with skeletons, spiders, and tombstones. What I hear most of all is "Dada car", and this is because for some reason the Toyota symbol on our 4runner has made an impression on Nate. Walking down the street, driving to school, or from his stroller perch, Nate can recognize the Toyota logo on any Toyota vehicle, be it Camry, pickup, or Sequoia. And when he sees it, he squeals with delight, "Dada car!!!" (did you know that many, many people drive Toyotas? I had no idea until these past few weeks). I have tried to get Nate to say "Luke", but when I ask him, he says, "No. BraBra." As if to say, "I recognize his name is Luke, but I am choosing to call him this instead." Nate is naming and recognizing and communicating more and more each day, and this word explosion is a joy to behold!
Something else that comes with this age, though, is the separation anxiety. Nate reminds me of one of those little koalas that we used to put on our pencils back in the day. You know the ones that you pinch and then they hang on? Well, Nate is that Koala, just hangin' on. Luke was always very confident and independent-minded, so this is new for me, and bittersweet. This should pass soon, I know.
Nate loves to jump. We are taking a Mommy and Me class that has tons of soft play equipment. Nate is the brute of the group, and the daredevil. He finds the highest point of the stacked climbing donuts, then leaps into the air, throwing himself into a sitting position as he lands on his bum in the center. At the park, he climbs the curb just to practice jumping down into the sand. He is still climbing as well, and pushing furniture around (with too much ease for my comfort) to enhance his climbing experience.
He throws massive tantrums where he says "No" and bites and pulls hair. But one of the most endearing things about Baby Nate is that he is sure he is five years old. There is no question in his mind that he and Luke are equals. Nate believes he can do the same art, play with the same toys, and have the same friends. In fact, today at the park, two of Luke's buddies had to go home, and Nate started screaming and wailing at the loss of these boys (who had made a great effort to include Natey in their adventures). Nate worships Luke, and there is no question that they both love each other immensely.
This is a great age, there's no question about it. But I am looking forward to all the ages of my boys. My aunt JoAnn recently sent her daughter off to college, and I asked how she was coping with that. She gave me an answer that has really stuck with me. She told me that she loves her daughter at this age- seeing her independent and courageous as she goes out into the world to become a true adult. And she loved her when she was little and learning, and she'll love the daughter that gets married and gives her grandchildren. She told me that she saw the joy that every age had to offer, so it made her feel that seeing her daughter off to college was not a loss or an end, but the beginning of something else really cool. Yep.
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
Face Painting
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Bumpa & the Boys

Sunday, September 20, 2009
Oktoberfest


The boys loved the chicken dance and trading off wearing the chicken hat. Daddy and Mom enjoyed the Spaten!
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Monday, September 14, 2009
Wild Rivers
Coming out of the waterfall...
One little tough guy waiting to slide...
More waterfall diving...Sunday, September 13, 2009
Friday, September 11, 2009
WOO WOO
Thursday, September 10, 2009
The First Day of School


When we got to the Kinder yard, we became acquainted with the procedures. Luke hung his backpack outside on the hooks and stored his snack in the large plastic bin so that Robby the squirrel will not eat it or eat through his backpack. We saw the homework bin (homework every night!) and then went in to meet Mrs. Vernick (he gave her a firm handshake), get a nametag, and find Luke's desk.
And then, as he sat down at his desk, my heart jumped into my throat and my eyes brimmed over. The moment got the best of me; I can only describe it as sort of a bittersweet lingering hanging heavily in the room. All the parents, with their cameras and their hopes, not wanting to leave but knowing that you have to.
Luke came home singing Down By The Bay and Days of the Week and in this put a happier song back into my heart. He loved his first day. And I still can't believe how quickly this day came.
Sunday, September 6, 2009
Big Shoes, and Other Things to Fill


Saturday, September 5, 2009
Scuba Steve
Thursday, September 3, 2009
Bob Baker Marionette Show

Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Legoland
In Oceanside, I realized I had forgotten my purse. With all my money, ID's, credit cards. Etc. PANIC SETS IN. I call information to get the number of the nearest Chase Bank. And well, I won't bore anybody with the story of the waterworks and heated conversation with Dorothy, the branch manager, but I will tell you that she was finally persuaded to give me 200 dollars from my account. (I also need to give a shout out to my Uncle Steve who was about to drive over from Encinitas and loan me the money had Chase not pulled through.... thanks Uncle!) Then, Off to Legoland we went!
Legoland ROCKS. It is perfect for boys it is perfect for five year olds. There is an entire room of Bionicle building sets to play with, another for playing with Legos. While you wait in line, you queue around a kids lego play area so the youngsters don't have to stand in line. But on this day, there were no lines. We went on everything Luke wanted, played in the "Wild Rivers Land" as Luke calls it, and took our picture (with my cell phone) with Darth Vader, Bionicles, Sponge Bob, and a million other things made with legos. Thank God a crisis was averted- we had a blast!
Can't wait to go back!
Sunday, August 30, 2009
Ronald Mc-N-Donald

Saturday, August 29, 2009
Friday, August 14, 2009
Mischief Man




















